Dominant Girlfriend, Submissive Boyfriend
Freya and Ezra are lovers, girlfriend, boyfriend. They are in a Femdom relationship. Freya is the ascendant partner, Ezra has promised to obey and serve his girlfriend.
Freya is a Domme, short for dominant woman. She never uses that term herself. She is Ezra’s Mistress. He addresses her as Mistress Freya only when being disciplined or formally worships her.
Ezra agreed that Freya could punish him when she finds fault with his behavior. She calls it getting even, restoring the balance. She reinforces her position as the ruling member of their relationship.
When Ezra fails to meet his obligations as his girlfriend’s submissive man, he needs punishment. If his untoward behavior goes unchecked their shared lives would fall apart.
Both want inequality and work to maintain it.
Their lives are simple. Freya decides. Sometimes she consults Ezra. Her word is final.
Ezra does most household chores, cooks most meals. Freya is always happy to help. Their lives are joyous. They do not want to create a two-person fascist state (which is what lonely malesubs most often imagine).
They are sadist and masochist. Their play is not vicious. Freya enjoys hurting Ezra but would never intentionally wound her submissive boyfriend. Being hurt by his girlfriend is dizzily intoxicating.
Often, he begs her to be brutal. She is too wise to let him push her to damage him. Ezra has less sense. He sought Freya because he needed someone intelligent and moderate.
Ezra buttocks are often pink with red streaks. His daily maintenance spankings are mostly play. But they do reinforce Freya’ status as Ezra’s superior.
Freya enjoys keeping Ezra chaste. He only has orgasms when she permits. Enforced chastity makes their lovemaking heartbreakingly beautiful and ecstatic.
Ezra’s punishment makes him feel regret for breaking a rule or exhibiting smugness.
Freya spanks him more harshly during punishment. But the real impact is her anger and most strongly her disappointment. Her submissive boyfriend’s misbehavior saddens her.
Punishment spankings do not end until Ezra weeps. Then Freya takes him into her arms. She holds him until the sobbing stops.
This is one example of how a real Femdom couple lives. Mistress Freya is a firm disciplinarian. Her goal is to guarantee their mutual happiness.